Damilola Adegbite tells single ladies to choose partners for love, not just being chosen
Damilola Adegbite, in a recent podcast episode on her YouTube channel, told single ladies not to accept relationship or marriage proposals simply because a man chose them, but to settle only for men who are right for them. She stressed that the key question is whether both can love, support, and build together, regardless of age difference.
The actress also advised older women not to choose younger men just because they make them feel desirable, urging them to assess whether the younger partner is respectful, emotionally mature, and genuinely wants to build something together, including respecting their children and life.
Her comments come amid ongoing conversations about relationship pressures and societal expectations, especially for women navigating dating and marriage in Nigeria. By highlighting mutual compatibility over being chosen, Adegbite encourages a shift toward healthier, more intentional partnerships.
Ask yourself: Is your relationship based on shared love, support, and goals, or are you staying mainly because he picked you? Consider whether your partner respects you, supports your growth, and wants to build a future together before committing.